Spread is a phenomenological thing, it is not a parameter we directly control. We directly control the offset, which causes the spread (yes, always 2x, one for bid and one for ask). Changing the offset will not have any effect on how often the bot adjusts orders. The deviation does that. Deviation should be between 0.002 and 0.003 approximately, depending on the volatility of the currency.
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